e²e²Homeschooling a PDA child looks like ordinary days: games, conversations, drawing and a lot of quiet. The learning is real. The work is turning it into a record afterwards, in your own words, without asking your child to take part.
Homeschooling a PDA child usually looks like an ordinary day with very little that resembles a lesson. The learning happens inside games, conversations, drawing and questions, and it is easy to miss while it's happening.
Your job shifts to noticing it and writing it down afterwards. That note, in your own words, is the educational record. PDA profiles vary, and this is one parent's method, not a clinical approach.
Often it looks like not much. A child in their room with a game, a video or a drawing. A long gap in the morning. A burst of interest at 4pm that disappears the moment anyone comments on it.
There's usually no timetable, no worksheet pile and no "first this, then that". Each of those is a demand, and for many PDA children demands are the thing that stops learning. Another post covers why the harder you try to make learning happen, the harder it can get.
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The day still contains learning. It just doesn't arrive with a label on it.
You write down what happened, in plain words, after it has happened. This is a made-up example, not any real child.
A child spends an hour building a train network in a game. At tea they ask why trains in some countries run on the left. You answer, they ask where the tracks in the game would go if the map were bigger, and that's the end of it.
That is a record: Built a rail network in a game for an hour. Asked why some countries drive on the left. Wondered how the map would change if it were bigger.
Three sentences. No photo, no worksheet, nothing the child had to produce.
Four things: it's specific, it's dated, it says what happened, and it links to what the moment shows.
"Did some geography" tells an assessor nothing. "Asked why some countries drive on the left" tells them the child is curious about how places differ and is forming questions without prompting.
The note doesn't need to prove anything. It needs to be a true account of something that happened. A hundred of these across a year say more about a child's learning than a folder of worksheets would.
Because recording during the activity can end the activity.
Asking a PDA child to explain what they're doing, or even hovering with a notebook, can turn a moment they chose into a task they're being watched on. The moment I get excited about an interest, it can die. I call my approach Interest Without Interest: I notice, say nothing, and write it down later. When strewing doesn't work covers the same idea from the materials side.
Logging afterwards also protects you. I'm crap at documentation, so I need a note that takes under a minute and doesn't depend on a good day.
I open the dashboard and the first thing on it is a box called A learning moment. I type what I noticed, choose who it's about and tag the key skills it touched. Then I press Save moment.
The note is saved privately to the family's notebook. The app matches the tags to the curriculum's key skills, so the train-network note can sit under geography and problem-solving without me working that out at 11pm.
My child never sees any of it. There's no prompt, no score and nothing for them to take part in or resist.
When a review is coming, I can generate a report from those moments, filtered by person, date range or key skill. The report is built from what I wrote, so I'm not reconstructing a year from memory.
I leave out anything I wouldn't want my child to read over my shoulder.
That includes meltdowns, shutdowns, distress and detailed incidents. A learning record is about what was learned, not a diary of how hard the day was. If you need a place for that, keep it separate and private.
Also leave out grades, comparisons and anything written as a verdict on your child. A record that says asked a question is more accurate, and kinder, than one that says finally engaged.
Mine did. I took a plan, some examples of apps we'd found and a kids' book about law to our assessment, and it was approved first time. The assessor told me there's no right or wrong way to home educate.
Requirements differ by region, so check what your own education authority asks for. Where records are expected, specific dated notes tied to real moments are credible because they're specific. What counts as evidence of learning at a home education review goes through what assessors look for.
If you're worried about a particular review, talk to your education authority or a home education organisation in your area. This post is one parent's experience, not legal advice.
Then there's nothing to write down. Some days are rest days, and rest is often what makes engagement possible later.
A quiet week in the log doesn't mean a quiet week of learning. It means you didn't catch it, and that's fine. You're recording moments you noticed, not producing a complete account of your child's mind.
For more on recording learning when worksheets aren't an option, see how to record learning when your child won't do worksheets.
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